Resources

Support beyond the session

Grief and trauma don't keep office hours. These articles, books, and tools are here for the moments between sessions — or before you're ready to reach out.

Articles

Grief5 min read

What grief actually feels like (and why it's not what you expect)

Grief rarely looks like the movies. It shows up as numbness, irritability, exhaustion, or a strange inability to cry. This piece explores the full range of grief responses and why all of them are normal.

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Grief6 min read

The myth of the five stages

Kübler-Ross's stages were never meant to be a checklist. Understanding what the research actually says about grief can free you from the pressure to grieve 'correctly.'

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Trauma7 min read

When your body holds what your mind can't process

Trauma is stored somatically — in the nervous system, in muscle tension, in the way you breathe. This introduction to somatic awareness explains why talk therapy alone sometimes isn't enough.

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Trauma5 min read

Understanding trauma responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn

These aren't character flaws — they're survival adaptations. Learning to recognize your own patterns is often the first step toward working with them rather than against them.

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Self-care4 min read

Grounding techniques for hard moments

When anxiety or grief spikes, grounding practices can help bring you back to the present. A collection of simple, evidence-based techniques you can use anywhere.

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Self-care5 min read

How to support someone who is grieving

Most people want to help but don't know what to say. This guide offers honest, practical guidance for showing up for someone in loss — without making it worse.

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Recommended reading

Books worth your time

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

A foundational text on how trauma reshapes the body and brain — and what actually helps.

It's OK That You're Not OK

Megan Devine

An honest, compassionate guide to grief that doesn't try to fix or rush the process.

Waking the Tiger

Peter Levine

The foundational text on Somatic Experiencing and how the body heals from trauma naturally.

Option B

Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant

A personal and research-backed look at resilience, loss, and finding meaning after adversity.

If you're in crisis right now

These resources are available 24/7. You don't have to be in immediate danger to reach out — if you're struggling, that's enough.

988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988
Crisis Text LineText HOME to 741741
SAMHSA National Helpline1-800-662-4357 — free, confidential, 24/7

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